Mutual aid & resources.
UBeLong is a dating and community app โ but community means catching people when they fall. This page is free and public, no account needed, because the moment someone needs it is not the moment to go through verification. Every number and organization below was checked against its official source before publishing.
Crisis lines โ pick up the phone
All 24/7, all free, all confidential. Trained humans, not bots.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Free, confidential support for anyone in emotional distress or suicidal crisis โ you don't have to be LGBTQ+ to call, and no one will ask you to be. Call or text 988, chat at 988lifeline.org.
The Trevor Project
Crisis counselors who understand LGBTQ+ life. Call, text, or chat โ whichever feels possible right now. Also has a calm breathing exercise if you're not ready to talk.
Trans Lifeline
A hotline run by and for trans people. Peer support โ the person who answers gets it in a way no script can. Family & friends welcome to call too.
Crisis Text Line
Sometimes talking out loud is too much. Text a trained crisis counselor instead โ free, confidential, from anywhere in the US.
RAINN โ Sexual Assault Hotline
The National Sexual Assault Hotline connects you with a trained staff member from a local sexual assault service provider. Confidential. You control what happens next.
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Advocates for anyone experiencing abuse โ including in LGBTQ+ and polyamorous relationships, which too many hotlines still don't handle well. Confidential and free.
Athens, Georgia
Home base. Where UBeLong was founded and where in-person events launch.
PFLAG Athens Area
Monthly support meetings โ a parent/ally discussion group and a young adult group, usually Thursday evenings. Open to everyone at any stage of the journey: questioning, out, coming out, or loving someone who is.
Athens Pride & Queer Collective
The city's LGBTQ+ nonprofit โ Pridefest, Queer Prom, support groups, and a gender-affirming care fund. Mostly volunteers, entirely donation-funded. Their community guide maps queer-owned and affirming businesses around Athens.
The Cottage โ Sexual Assault Center
Athens' sexual assault center & children's advocacy center. Free, trauma-informed counseling and advocacy for survivors of all genders and identities โ their team served hundreds of LGBTQ+ clients last year. Hospital accompaniment, legal navigation, therapy.
Advantage Behavioral Health Systems
The public community mental health provider for Athens-Clarke County and surrounding counties โ counseling, psychiatry, crisis services, and substance-use treatment, regardless of ability to pay. Start with their Athens-Clarke County office.
Nuรงi's Space
A musician's resource and support center founded in memory of Nuรงi Phillips โ a safe, supportive environment for musicians, with practice spaces and a well-known mental health referral network. One of Athens' most beloved queer-friendly spaces.
Live Forward
Formerly AIDS Athens โ HIV testing, prevention (PrEP navigation), and support services for the Athens area. Free pop-up testing around town and on campus. Located at 2500 W Broad St, Suite 300, Athens.
Atlanta
Where the state's biggest LGBTQ+ services live โ about an hour down 316.
Lost-n-Found Youth
Atlanta's nonprofit for LGBTQ+ young adults (18โ25) experiencing homelessness โ emergency support, street outreach, housing, and a youth center. If you're a young person with nowhere to sleep tonight, start here.
CHRIS 180
Mental health and human services nonprofit โ counseling centers (including affordable sliding-scale therapy), supportive housing, and programs specifically for LGBTQ+ youth experiencing homelessness.
Covenant House Georgia
Shelter and services for young people facing homelessness โ a significant share of whom are LGBTQ+. Emergency beds, case management, job help, no judgment at the door.
Destination Tomorrow Atlanta
A grassroots LGBTQ+ center focused on the needs of queer and trans people of color โ community space, programming, and housing support. Real community, not just services.
AID Atlanta
One of the Southeast's longest-running HIV service organizations โ testing, prevention, linkage to care, and support groups. Many services free.
Georgia Equality
The state's LGBTQ+ policy and advocacy organization โ tracks what's happening in Georgia law, maintains a provider resource directory, and organizes civic participation.
Someone who's been there โ peer lines
Not crisis lines โ warm, unhurried peer support from fellow LGBTQ+ people. Check hours; most are evenings and weekends.
LGBT National Hotline
Run by the LGBT National Help Center since 1996 โ volunteers who are all part of the community. Call about coming out, identity, relationships, isolation, finding local resources, or just to talk to someone who gets it. Evenings ET, plus Saturdays.
LGBT National Coming Out Hotline
A safe place to think out loud about coming out โ at work, to family, to yourself โ with someone who's navigated it. All ages, all paces, including "I never plan to."
LGBT National Youth Talkline
Youth serving youth โ talk with a peer about anything: identity, family, school, dating, feeling alone. Not a crisis line; a "normal person to talk to" line.
LGBT National Senior Hotline
For community members 50 and up โ many of whom came of age in a much crueler world and carry that. Peer volunteers who lived it too.
SAGE LGBTQ+ Elder Hotline
National crisis and support line run with and for LGBTQ+ elders โ people who survived the AIDS crisis only to face isolation in housing and care. Available around the clock.
SAMHSA National Helpline
Not therapy itself โ a free, confidential referral line for mental health and substance-use treatment anywhere in the US. Tell them what you need and roughly where you are; they point you to real options, including low-cost ones.
Affirming faith communities & directories
Faith and sexuality were never actually enemies โ but finding a community that agrees takes help. These directories are the help.
Believe Out Loud
The largest online directory of LGBTQ-affirming churches and faith communities in the US โ search by tradition and distance from home.
Q Christian Fellowship
A community of LGBTQ+ Christians and allies โ including many people holding traditional faith and queer identity at the same time. Conferences, small groups, and real pastoral care.
DignityUSA
LGBTQ+ Catholics, families, and friends โ working for full inclusion in the church they love. Local chapters, and a long history of keeping faith alive through exile.
Keshet
For the full equality of LGBTQ+ Jews in Jewish life โ and their Equality Directory lists affirming clergy and synagogues so you can find a community where you're fully welcome.
PFLAG โ Faith Resources
PFLAG's curated faith resources for Christians โ including guidance for families reconciling faith with a loved one's identity. A gentle starting place.
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